Mrs H, do we appear to you an individual who will not take pleasure in the connection obtained through discussion? Discussion just isn’t my love language because connection just isn’t my love content. The mixture of feelings that we interpret as intimate love isn’t mainly connection. This doesn’t mean that connection is unimportant within my idea of intimate love, nor that connection is unimportant in non-romantic love (or like, or acquaintance).
It’s not that folks whoever main love-language is desire ( maybe not intercourse, keep in mind) are completely happy as human beings with only their spouse and their task. That other connections are unimportant. They just provide one with something different, other than that which makes up *romantic* love. Other stuff that appear much less essential whenever one does not have intimate love (and wants that certain had it).
But when one gets several oranges, one begins to crave other foodstuffs that offer things aside from supplement C.
@Emily, with regards to your remark right here that I needed the “hour long conversation before the meal” when I was dating– it’s true.